Are You Wondering How to Become a Mentor in Relationships?

First, you will have to become a role model. What if you don’t have the ideal relationship? What if you aren’t even in a relationship? Use these life coach career skills and you will have success in your love life, and your life coach career.

The first step in how to become a mentor in relationships is to make a list of the qualities you want your ideal mate to have, as well as the qualities you want to avoid in your ideal mate. Be honest. This step is the foundation for the rest of this exercise.

The next step in how to become a mentor in relationships is to take your list of these good and bad qualities, and circle the top “must have” qualities you want to see in your ideal partner, as well as circling the “must not” qualities as well. If you’re not in a relationship, this step will make finding your ideal partner much easier. And if you’re already in a relationship don’t worry, we’ll get to that next.

This Next Step is Where The Real Life Coach Career Begins to Pay Off

The third step in how to become a mentor in relationships is to make a list of the qualities that you need to have to attract what you are looking for in a mate, if you’re single.

If you’re in a relationship, list the qualities of the person you would need to be in order to bring out the best in your spouse. Now take each item on your must list and rank from 0 to 10 in terms of how well your partner is doing in meeting your standard. Evaluate where you are on your list of what qualities you need to attract the type of relationship you want.

Be Honest With Yourself, Just The Way You Expect Your Clients in Your Life Coach Career to Be

And if you really want to know how to become a mentor in relationships, you will need to let your partner do this exercise as well. Share your results with each other. Provide support and accountability, just like you do in your life coach career.

After you work through this process you will know how to become a mentor in relationships, and dating too. These skills alone should boost any life coach career.

Colette Seymann

JTS Advisors Accountability Coach