Why would anyone need a relationship life coach? Don’t relationships just happen, and when you find the right one, it becomes sunshine, rainbows, and little puppies without any work at all?
A Loving Relationship Doesn’t Happen Overnight
Love at first sight may happen for some people, a few people, a couple here and there over the course of history, but it’s far more the exception rather than the rule. Loving relationships, whether short-term or long-term are usually created over a period of time. Yes – there is that initial attraction, whether you find each other drunk in a bar, meet in church, or select each others’ profiles on some dating site.
But, the foundation for a powerful and happy relationship builds over time, as each participant realizes what they want out of it, and what they have to offer.
4 Ways a Relationship Life Coach Will Help You Improve Your Relationships
You put up with plenty of BS in your relationship. You tell yourself you are committed to making it work, and you are proving your loyalty and love. But, in most cases, putting up with all that BS just means you are an addict – you are addicted to your significant other. This isn’t a healthy relationship and this sure as hell isn’t love. Yes – a relationship coach can help you with this addiction.
Learn how to form a partnership. When you create a partnership in business, you draw up rules, create strategies, and delegate tasks and responsibilities. A loving relationship doesn’t need to have paperwork drawn up, but guidelines formed over the early parts of the relationship create rules to live by. Every partnership is filled with negotiation, compromise, sacrifice, and commitment. A relationship life coach can help you find ways to make that partnership work.
Get on the bus when it comes your way. What bus am I talking about? If the relationship isn’t working, and you given a reasonable effort to make it work, it may be time to get on the bus that takes you away from s stalled relationship. A relationship life coach will help you see when that bus is the right thing to take, and help you develop a new mindset about the opportunities present when you step on that bus.
Relationships come with all kinds of life issues – money, sexual, communication, jealousy, anger, possessiveness, and infidelity. Everyone has to deal with at last a few of these at one time or another. A relationship coach can help you identify the deal breakers, and work with those that shouldn’t split apart an otherwise loving relationship.
Become a Relationship Life Coach
Now that you see myriad ways a relationship life coach can help people achieve healthy relationships (and these 4 ways are only the tip of the iceberg), wouldn’t you want to join this growing and dynamic field?
If you are thinking about becoming a coach, relationship coaching is a growing field. You don’t need any experience, because you have probably had plenty experience with relationships in your own life.
All you need to do is have a passion for it, and get the right training with an accredited relationship life coaching program. Coaching isn’t easy – in fact, takes plenty of hard work and determination, but there is no more rewarding career – and it can pay pretty damn well, too!
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