{"id":923,"date":"2009-04-09T10:36:27","date_gmt":"2009-04-09T10:36:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=923"},"modified":"2016-08-12T00:06:13","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T08:06:13","slug":"how-to-become-a-mentor-in-relationships-skills-for-your-life-coach-career","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/how-to-become-a-mentor-in-relationships-skills-for-your-life-coach-career\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Become a Mentor in Relationships: Skills You Can Use From Your Life Coach Career"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Are You Wondering\u00a0H<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">ow to Become a Mentor in<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0Relationships?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"western\">First, you will have to become a role model. What if you don\u2019t have the ideal relationship? What if you aren\u2019t even in a relationship? Use these\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><a title=\"life coach career\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/03\/how-to-increase-your-yes-rate-in-career-as-a-life-coach\/\" target=\"_self\">life coach career<\/a><\/strong><\/span><strong><a title=\"life coach career\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/03\/how-to-increase-your-yes-rate-in-career-as-a-life-coach\/\" target=\"_self\">\u00a0<\/a><\/strong>skills and you will have success in your love life, and\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">your <strong>life coach career<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">The first step in\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><a title=\"how to become a mentor in\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/03\/can-i-become-a-coach-if-don\u2019t-feel-i-can-become-a-mentor\/\" target=\"_self\">how to become a mentor in<\/a><\/strong><\/span>\u00a0relationships is to make a list of the qualities you want your ideal mate to have, as well as the qualities you want to avoid in your ideal mate. Be honest. This step is the foundation for the rest of this exercise.<\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">The next step in\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>how to become a mentor in<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0relationships is to take your list of these good and bad qualities, and circle the top \u201cmust have\u201d qualities you want to see in your ideal partner, as well as circling the \u201cmust not\u201d qualities as well. If you\u2019re not in a relationship, this step will make finding your ideal partner much easier. And if you\u2019re already in a relationship don\u2019t worry, we\u2019ll get to that next.<\/p>\n<h3>This Next Step is Where The Real Life Coach Career Begins to Pay Off<\/h3>\n<p class=\"western\">The third step in\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>how to become a mentor in<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0relationships is to make a list of the qualities that you need to have to attract what you are looking for in a mate, if you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">If you\u2019re in a relationship, list the qualities of the person you would need to be in order to bring out the best in your spouse. Now take each item on your must list and rank from 0 to 10 in terms of how well your partner is doing in meeting your standard. Evaluate where you are on your list of what qualities you need to attract the type of relationship you want.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Be Honest With Yourself, Just The Way You Expect Your Clients in Your L<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">ife Coach Career<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0to Be<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"western\">And if you really want to know\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">how to become a mentor in<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0relationships, you will need to let your partner do this exercise as well. Share your results with each other. Provide support and accountability, just like you do in your\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>life coach career<\/strong>.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">After you work through this process you will know\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a title=\"how to become a mentor in\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mentoring.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">how to become a mentor in<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">relationships, and dating too. These skills alone should boost any<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">life coach career<\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Colette Seymann<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">JTS Advisors Accountability Coach<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are You Wondering\u00a0How to Become a Mentor in\u00a0Relationships? First, you will have to become a role model. What if you don\u2019t have the ideal relationship? What if you aren\u2019t even in a relationship? Use these\u00a0life coach career\u00a0skills and you will have success in your love life, and\u00a0your life coach career. The first step in\u00a0how to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[127,84],"tags":[921,883],"class_list":["post-923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-how-to-become-a-mentor-in","category-life-coach-career","tag-how-to-become-a-mentor-in","tag-life-coach-career","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=923"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/923\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18334,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/923\/revisions\/18334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}