{"id":804,"date":"2009-03-26T14:39:43","date_gmt":"2009-03-26T14:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=804"},"modified":"2016-08-11T23:05:06","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T07:05:06","slug":"how-to-become-a-career-coach-who-conquers-their-own-fears-career-coaching-tools","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/how-to-become-a-career-coach-who-conquers-their-own-fears-career-coaching-tools\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Become a Career Coach Who Conquers Their Own Fears: Career Coaching Tools That Get Immediate Results"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we first decide we want to learn\u00a0how to become a career coach<\/a><\/strong><\/span>, we have lots of ideas of what our life will look like. And if we just have enough\u00a0career coaching tools<\/a><\/strong><\/span>\u00a0we will figure out\u00a0how to become a career coach<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0who lives the life others only dream about. But the truth is, our lives are filled with fear\u2026or the more politically correct word for achievers would be \u201cstress\u201d. The most important step is to begin. Just like children who are learning to walk, everyone stumbles and falls on their face from time to time. Here are a few\u00a0career coaching tools<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0you can use to move past your fears when that happens.<\/p>\n

The First Step to Help You Learn H<\/span>ow to Become a Career Coach<\/span><\/span>\u00a0Who Can Eliminate Fear is to Identify What You Are Afraid Of
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What happened in your life that makes you afraid now?<\/p>\n

The best of the best in\u00a0career coaching tools<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0to use when fear is interfering with your life is to use the Erasure Technique. Erasure techniques are great\u00a0<\/span>career coaching tools<\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00a0to use when y<\/span>ou make a mistake and then find yourself replaying it again and again in your mind. Have you ever had this type of experience, and each time you see this \u201cmovie\u201d of your error, you feel the pain acutely again? When you use the Erasure Technique, instead of playing it back as you remember it happened, you can choose play it back in a way that makes the whole thing seem ridiculous. Play back the experience like a cartoon. Play the movie back at different speeds, changing the scale of the characters, add music, play it in reverse. For example, if someone yelled at you, you can replay this movie with the cartoon character “Dumbo” portraying that person. You could have that person sounding like Mickey Mouse!<\/p>\n

Go through this process at least a dozen times while playing around with the experience, making it so funny that you can\u2019t think about the experience without laughing at least a little.<\/p>\n

The Key to These C<\/span>areer Coaching Tools<\/span><\/span>\u00a0is to Make The Other Person Seem so Ridiculous That You Can\u2019t Possibly Take Him Seriously<\/span><\/h3>\n

This is a simple way to learn\u00a0how to become a career coach<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\u00a0who can eliminate fear.<\/p>\n

If you learn\u00a0<\/span>how to become a career coach<\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00a0who stops beating yourself up over mistakes and\u00a0<\/span>how to become a career coach<\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>who gets past your fears, then you can help others to do the same.<\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/div>\n
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JTS Advisors Accountability Coach<\/div>\n
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When we first decide we want to learn\u00a0how to become a career coach, we have lots of ideas of what our life will look like. And if we just have enough\u00a0career coaching tools\u00a0we will figure out\u00a0how to become a career coach\u00a0who lives the life others only dream about. But the truth is, our lives are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[108,107],"tags":[903,902],"class_list":["post-804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-career-coaching-tools","category-how-to-become-a-career-coach","tag-career-coaching-tools","tag-how-to-become-a-career-coach","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=804"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/804\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18318,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/804\/revisions\/18318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}

The next step in these\u00a0career coaching tools<\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00a0is to ask yourself, \u201cWhat did I have to believe in order to feel fear?\u201d And the last step of these\u00a0career coaching tools<\/a><\/span><\/span>\u00a0is to find a more empowering alternative. Ask yourself, \u201cWhat could I believe that would eliminate the possibility of fear?\u201d<\/p>\n