{"id":5642,"date":"2010-11-26T01:36:13","date_gmt":"2010-11-26T01:36:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=5642"},"modified":"2016-08-14T22:51:46","modified_gmt":"2016-08-15T06:51:46","slug":"ruthless-rules-reality-life-coaching","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/ruthless-rules-reality-life-coaching\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ruthless Rules of Reality In Life Coaching"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Before you decide to start your own <a title=\"Life Coaching\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/how-coach-celebrities-life-coaching\/5454\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>life coaching<\/strong><\/a> business, you need to know the cold, hard facts. Most people sugar-coat reality. They don\u2019t want to hurt your feelings or discourage you. And while these people may be your friends at some level, if you go out into a snowstorm without a jacket you\u2019ll freeze to death.<\/p>\n<h3>3 Rules to Live or Die By<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1. You have to sell. I\u2019ll repeat it. You have to sell yourself, your programs, your materials, and even what your client says he\/she wants out of life. You can do a great free session, and still not enroll people into your programs. If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get around selling, you need to get some coaching and transform those beliefs that if you want to succeed.<br \/>\n2. You need to become a good promoter. A good promoter is not shy about telling you what he\u2019s up to, even to a fault. I\u2019ve heard it said that promoters will even pitch their own grandmothers. They can\u2019t help it. Let\u2019s face it; we\u2019ve all promoted something at some point in time\u2026a movie, a restaurant, a book. Why not your own <strong>life coaching<\/strong> business?<br \/>\n3. You\u2019re going to have to chase clients. Maybe you don\u2019t like the word, but somehow you\u2019re going to have to get your clients to enroll. Most people don\u2019t want to face their fears, limiting beliefs and other dragons that keep them from what they want. They need support. You may have to follow up with some people to the point that it\u2019s more painful to avoid you than to talk to you.<\/p>\n<h3>The Secret To Success In Life Coaching Is Counter-Intuitive<\/h3>\n<p>Most coaches focus on improving their <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">life coaching<\/span> skills. Although great skills are essential to effectively coach someone, you need a way to get clients into the game. Good sales and marketing skills are a must to creating a business that will not only sustain you, but allow you to thrive.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em><strong>Give this strategy a try and see for yourself that it works. If you liked this coaching tip, leave a comment or use the handy bookmark buttons below to share it with others on Facebook, Twitter, Digg, etc. Thanks!<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<br \/>\nJTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you decide to start your own life coaching business, you need to know the cold, hard facts. Most people sugar-coat reality. They don\u2019t want to hurt your feelings or discourage you. And while these people may be your friends at some level, if you go out into a snowstorm without a jacket you\u2019ll freeze [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5644,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[983],"class_list":["post-5642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-life-coaching","tag-life-coaching","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/Image-by-TheHitBlog.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5642"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5642\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19065,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5642\/revisions\/19065"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5644"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}