{"id":5019,"date":"2010-10-09T06:00:28","date_gmt":"2010-10-09T06:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=5019"},"modified":"2016-08-14T21:36:24","modified_gmt":"2016-08-15T05:36:24","slug":"life-coaching-confessions-what-i-never-say-because-i%e2%80%99m-too-lazy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/life-coaching-confessions-what-i-never-say-because-i%e2%80%99m-too-lazy\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Coaching Confessions: What I Never Say Because I\u2019m Too Lazy"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are things that I say inside my head but I would never say out loud because I\u2019m too lazy. I do this with my clients, and I know how much work it is. And how necessary it is to my clients\u2019 success. How about you? How often do you go to the edge for your clients? Maybe you just don\u2019t think it would make a difference in your their life. Maybe it\u2019s too much of a hassle. Maybe you\u2019re not fully engaged in the coaching conversation.<\/p>\n

Are You Robbing Your Life Coaching Clients?<\/h3>\n

Life coaching<\/strong><\/a> is not about being nice. Or supportive. Or helpful. Coaching is about getting results. Results that are not predictable without your coaching. How do you deliver these type of results without calling people on their \u201cstuff?\u201d How often do you interrupt your clients to call them on the story that robs them of their life? Without you, their emotions and behaviors will regulate their actions like the thermostat that regulate the temperature in your home.<\/p>\n

What You Don\u2019t Want To Say Out Loud What Your Clients Need To Hear Most<\/h3>\n

If your clients don\u2019t hear it in their coaching sessions with you, chances are they are not getting the message anywhere else. Most people don\u2019t say what\u2019s really on their mind because of social constructs. We\u2019re all learned, \u201cIf you can\u2019t say something nice, you shouldn\u2019t say it at all\u201d and \u201cBefore you help remove a splinter from someone\u2019s eye, remove the log out of your own.\u201d What your clients really need most is someone who will take a stand for them. They need someone who is willing to be there unselfishly for them and say what needs to be said.<\/p>\n

Most relationships are tit for tat. I love you because you love me. I won\u2019t call you on your stuff and you don\u2019t call me on mine. As a coach you want to remain completely unattached to your life coaching<\/strong> clients and their outcomes. The moment you need them to continue for money, connection, etc. is the moment you need to let them move on because you hinder your ability to say what\u2019s on your mind and powerfully lead them to create their destiny.<\/p>\n

Would you like an endless stream of new coaching clients? Simply fill out the form to the right with your first name and email and I\u2019ll send you free videos with step-by-step blueprints for generating a massive income from high paying coaching clients.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Colette Seymann
\nJTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There are things that I say inside my head but I would never say out loud because I\u2019m too lazy. I do this with my clients, and I know how much work it is. And how necessary it is to my clients\u2019 success. How about you? How often do you go to the edge for […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[983],"class_list":["post-5019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-life-coaching","tag-life-coaching","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5019"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19052,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5019\/revisions\/19052"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}