{"id":4373,"date":"2010-08-24T06:00:39","date_gmt":"2010-08-24T06:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=4373"},"modified":"2016-08-12T04:44:55","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T12:44:55","slug":"relationship-coaching-the-surprising-lesson-i-learned-from-my-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coaching-the-surprising-lesson-i-learned-from-my-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Coaching:  The Surprising Lesson I Learned From My Husband"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes valuable <a title=\"relationship coaching\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/what-you-need-to-be-a-coach-become-a-life-coach-who-walks-their-talk\/2242\/\"><strong>relationship coaching<\/strong><\/a> lessons pop up at the oddest moments. A few years ago a 2 year-old boy was staying at our house for an extended period. He happily played with my daughter toys; including the miniature kitchen, dolls, and strollers. One day my husband said that if this little guy was going to stay with us, he needed to have some \u201cboy\u201d toys. I was shocked, and a little resistant. Why was this a big deal?<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #888888;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The Biggest Relationship Mistake Women Make<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We, as women, are so often focused on having the men in our lives be sweet, caring, and romantic that we neglect to appreciate the other side. The masculine side. The side that attracted us in the first place. Many times as women we even try to squash that side and try to get the men in our lives to be our best friends. We encourage them to be more like a best girlfriend than a man. We walk all over them and wonder where the romance went.<\/p>\n<h3>Can Relationship Coaching Make a Difference?<\/h3>\n<p>Fortunately, if one person commits to coaching it is possible to turn a roommate back into a lover. In order to restore the attraction, you need to encourage your clients to embrace their differences. Don\u2019t make men eat quiche when they would rather barbeque. Personally I don\u2019t really understand the fascination with fire; it must be some primal instinct. If you can get your <strong>relationship coaching<\/strong> clients to find ways to support their spouse in their gender role, however, you will often quickly see a shift in the relationship. It doesn\u2019t mean women need to drink beer and sit on the sofa all day watching the games and acting more masculine; it just means allowing boys to be boys in their own unique way.<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em><strong>Would you like an endless stream of new coaching clients? Simply fill out the form to the right with your first name and email and I&#8217;ll send you free videos with step-by-step blueprints for generating a massive income from high paying coaching clients.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Colette Seymann<br \/>\nJTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes valuable relationship coaching lessons pop up at the oddest moments. A few years ago a 2 year-old boy was staying at our house for an extended period. He happily played with my daughter toys; including the miniature kitchen, dolls, and strollers. One day my husband said that if this little guy was going to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[189],"tags":[978,1192],"class_list":["post-4373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coaching","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4373","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4373"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18439,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4373\/revisions\/18439"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}