{"id":4277,"date":"2010-08-15T15:46:42","date_gmt":"2010-08-15T15:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=4277"},"modified":"2017-07-13T23:59:38","modified_gmt":"2017-07-14T07:59:38","slug":"how-to-speak-with-confidence-tips-you-can-use-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/how-to-speak-with-confidence-tips-you-can-use-now\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Speak With Confidence:  3 Easy Tips You Can Use Now"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to learn <strong><a title=\"how to speak with confidence\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/new-seminar-for-coaches-public-speaking-to-get-clients\/2900\/\" target=\"_self\">how to speak with confidence<\/a><\/strong> in any situation, you may think it\u2019s either nearly impossible or will take a lot of time to achieve. But that\u2019s not true. I have a friend who was showcased during a 30-minute local news program. Unfortunately, she is very introverted, and in her mind it was a huge shift to attain the confidence she wanted to speak with. But all that was required was a 2mm shift\u2014and here\u2019s how she did it.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19764\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19764\" style=\"width: 848px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-19764 size-full\" title=\"how to speak with confidence\" src=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/34882412_m.jpg\" alt=\"how to speak with confidence\" width=\"848\" height=\"565\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/34882412_m.jpg 848w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/34882412_m-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/34882412_m-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 848px) 100vw, 848px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19764\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How to speak with confidence<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>How To Speak With Confidence Even When You\u2019re Terrified<\/h3>\n<p>Tip #1: Realize that you know <strong>how to speak with confidence<\/strong>, and that you do so every day. Notice how you stand when you\u2019re confident, the look you have on your face, and the way you breathe. Step into that posture and notice how you feel when you are speaking with confidence. Compare this state with how you feel when you are nervous. <em>Which one will be more effective?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tip #2: Speak from the heart. Isn\u2019t it much easier to give a gift than to ask for something? Don\u2019t ask people to listen to what you want to tell them. <em>Find out what they want, ask questions, and give them what they want.<\/em> If you\u2019re nervous you are making it about you, your message, and how you look, instead of making it about serving others.<\/p>\n<h3>The Key To Speaking With Confidence<\/h3>\n<p>Tip #3: If you really want to know <u>how to speak with confidence<\/u>, you\u2019re going to have to practice. Practice is most effective when it is specific to the environment you want to master. If you practice in front of the mirror, you\u2019ll get better at speaking in front of a mirror. Find places where you can speak in front of people, and practice speaking with confidence. After a while, you will step into the confidence that you are seeking.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hope you took some great value out of today\u2019s post! I\u2019d love to hear your feedback, so make sure you <strong>leave a comment<\/strong> with your thoughts or questions. You can also click on the Twitter button below to retweet this article\u2026 <a title=\"Thank you!\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.lpages.co\/leadbox\/144764c33f72a2%3A1511a2ea6b46dc\/5631111958888448\/\" target=\"_self\">Thank you!<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<br \/>\nJTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to learn how to speak with confidence in any situation, you may think it\u2019s either nearly impossible or will take a lot of time to achieve. But that\u2019s not true. I have a friend who was showcased during a 30-minute local news program. Unfortunately, she is very introverted, and in her mind [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19764,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[164,195],"tags":[956,984],"class_list":["post-4277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-how-to-speak-with-confidence","category-life-coaching-business","tag-how-to-speak-with-confidence","tag-life-coaching-business","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/34882412_m.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4277"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4277\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20413,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4277\/revisions\/20413"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}