{"id":3760,"date":"2010-06-24T06:30:47","date_gmt":"2010-06-24T06:30:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=3760"},"modified":"2016-08-11T22:35:57","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T06:35:57","slug":"life-coaching-tips-tough-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/life-coaching-tips-tough-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Coaching Tips: Tough Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

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There are many life coaching tips<\/strong><\/span><\/a> on how to establish rapport with your clients.\u00a0 And by all means, it is a very important skill.\u00a0 But should you ever intentionally break rapport?\u00a0 Is there a right way to do it?\u00a0 What if your client stops liking you and decides to quit?\u00a0 It all comes down to how committed you are to your coaching client and getting the results they want.<\/div>\n
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Life Coaching Tips:\u00a0 How to Break Rapport Without Loosing Your Client<\/h3>\n

The most important life coaching tips<\/strong><\/span><\/a> to breaking rapport with your client is to pre-frame your sessions by letting your clients that you are willing to be there for them and what they want to achieve in their life.\u00a0 No one else will do that for them.\u00a0 There is an unspoken agreement between most friends, lovers, and families that says, \u201cWe will make sure you stay safe by not allowing you to fly too high.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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An Effective Life Coach Must Not Care<\/h3>\n
To be truly effective, a life coach must not be attached to the coaching relationship.\u00a0 If you need your clients for any reason, you will not be able to serve them to the highest degree.\u00a0 If you need them to continue because they help pay the bills, you will bind your own hands in what you are able to accomplish.\u00a0 You are better off working in a fast food chain to support yourself than to be attached to a coaching client for personal gain.<\/div>\n

The other life coaching tips<\/span> for effectively breaking rapport are to come from a position of total love, caring, and dedication to your client.\u00a0 You must be completely detached of their progress, then give 110%.\u00a0 Your best coaching, strategy and other tips.\u00a0 Don\u2019t leave anything unsaid, because it is really up to you.\u00a0 Becoming a life coach who is willing to risk their own needs getting met to serve someone else is truly priceless in today\u2019s world of political correctness.<\/p>\n


\nGive this strategy a try and see for yourself that it works.\u00a0\u00a0 If you liked this coaching tip, <\/strong>leave a comment<\/strong><\/em><\/span> or use the handy bookm<\/span>ark buttons below to share it with others on Facebook, Twitter, Digg, etc. Thanks!
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Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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