{"id":3510,"date":"2010-05-27T20:35:23","date_gmt":"2010-05-27T20:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=3510"},"modified":"2016-08-11T03:10:29","modified_gmt":"2016-08-11T11:10:29","slug":"relationship-coach-magic-potion-transform-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-magic-potion-transform-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"The Relationship Coach Magic Potion: A Simple Strategy That Will Transform Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are a lot of relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> theories and technologies, but there is one strategy that is so simple that people often won\u2019t do it until they are desperate.\u00a0 That is, when the relationship is so damaged that their only hope is that you can coach them to success.\u00a0 And your clients will start seeing results in less than 10 days.\u00a0 So what do they have to loose?<\/p>\n

Most People Are In a Relationship for the Wrong Reason<\/h3>\n

That\u2019s right.\u00a0 Most people are in a relationship for the wrong reason.\u00a0 They are in it to get their own needs met.\u00a0 An analogy is that both people come to the table with their own bowl.\u00a0 But they keep it high above their head so the other person can\u2019t see what the contents are.\u00a0 Once the relationship gets to a certain point, both people discover that the other\u2019s bowl is empty.\u00a0 Neither has anything to give.\u00a0 Both go hungry, and their needs are not fulfilled.<\/p>\n

The Relationship Coach Challenge is to Get Someone to Drink the Magic Potion<\/h3>\n

The cure is for one person to take action.\u00a0 Why not both?\u00a0 Most people would rather wait for the other person to take action first.\u00a0 Someone has to decide to go first.\u00a0 The Magic Potion is that the leader must find out what needs the other person is not currently getting met in the relationship and learn how to meet those needs for the other person.\u00a0 The trick is to get them to do it without any type of expectations of reciprocation for 10 days.\u00a0 After 10 days they will start seeing results, which will give them motivation to continue for 30 days.\u00a0 After 30 days it will start becoming a habit, and you will support them in continuing until the 90 day mark.\u00a0 By 90 days, there will be so much positive reinforcement that they can sustain this lifestyle indefinitely.<\/p>\n

Who would sign up for this?\u00a0 The key is for you as the relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> to get enough emotional leverage to make this potion seem palatable long enough to start seeing results.\u00a0 The strategy is simple, but not easy.\u00a0 But when you can make this type of difference in a couple\u2019s life, they will feel the experience is truly priceless.<\/p>\n

By the way\u2026 you\u2019re invited to claim your FREE step-by-step \u201c30-Days to Become a Coach<\/a><\/strong>\u201d video toolkit.\u00a0\u00a0Just go\u00a0HERE<\/a><\/strong> now to get your\u00a030-day coaching blueprint videos<\/strong><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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