{"id":3230,"date":"2010-04-20T13:00:49","date_gmt":"2010-04-20T13:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=3230"},"modified":"2016-08-11T22:10:01","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T06:10:01","slug":"coaching-tips-the-secret-behind-successful-coaching","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/coaching-tips-the-secret-behind-successful-coaching\/","title":{"rendered":"Coaching Tips: The Secret Behind Successful Coaching"},"content":{"rendered":"

Inevitably, some of your clients will be successful coaching<\/a><\/strong> clients and some of them won\u2019t have as much success.\u00a0 Do some clients try harder than others, are more motivated, or are just plain smarter?\u00a0 These factors don\u2019t predict whether someone will become a successful coaching<\/strong> story; one that will give you great testimonials and send you referrals.\u00a0\u00a0 The best coaching tips<\/a><\/strong> are not about teaching you how to motivate your clients to work harder or teach them new strategies.\u00a0 While these are important, they don\u2019t address the inner game.\u00a0 These coaching tips<\/strong> will give you understanding to unlock the mystery of the subconscious brain.<\/p>\n

For Successful Coaching Address Emotions and Behaviors that Have Become Habitual<\/h3>\n

Coaching Tips<\/strong> for Successful Coaching<\/strong> #1:\u00a0 We are addicts to our own emotions and behaviors.\u00a0 No matter how painful our life is, our built-in regulatory systems do their best to keep us on track.\u00a0 This happens when we try to loose weight and eat less.\u00a0 Our bodies respond by becoming more efficient and burn fewer calories.\u00a0 And it doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re comfortable.\u00a0 Even people who are in abusive relationships often can\u2019t see a way out.<\/p>\n

Help Your Coaching Client See More than They Are Trained to See With This Coaching Tip<\/h3>\n

Coaching Tips<\/span> for Successful Coaching<\/span> #2:\u00a0 We see what we were trained to see, and believe what we were trained to believe.\u00a0 Newborn infants can\u2019t see more than 8-12 inches away from their own face.\u00a0 They only see far enough to imprint the face of their caregiver into their memory.\u00a0 \u00a0Have you ever seen a fly trying to get out of a window that is closed?\u00a0 Again and again they try, harder and harder, until they eventually die.\u00a0 They don\u2019t even see that a door is open a few feet away.\u00a0 How many times have you tried to get your clients to see something, and they just don\u2019t get it?<\/p>\n

Successful Coaching Comes from Shifting Your Client\u2019s Belief Systems<\/h3>\n

Coaching Tips<\/span> for Successful Coaching<\/span> #3:\u00a0 In order to really transform someone\u2019s life, you have to help that person shift the belief systems that are not serving them.\u00a0 Limiting beliefs.\u00a0 Just like trying to install new programs on a computer with a faulty hard drive doesn\u2019t work, having people try new strategies when their underlying beliefs don\u2019t support their actions won\u2019t give them lasting results.<\/p>\n

These coaching tips will not only help you get better results with your clients, but also help enroll more successful coaching clients.\u00a0 When clients understand what they are up against, they are more likely to make the commitment that is necessary to really create the life they want.<\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Inevitably, some of your clients will be successful coaching clients and some of them won\u2019t have as much success.\u00a0 Do some clients try harder than others, are more motivated, or are just plain smarter?\u00a0 These factors don\u2019t predict whether someone will become a successful coaching story; one that will give you great testimonials and send […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[158,244],"tags":[950,1024],"class_list":["post-3230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-coaching-tips","category-successful-coaching","tag-coaching-tips","tag-successful-coaching","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3230","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3230"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3230\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18290,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3230\/revisions\/18290"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}