{"id":3068,"date":"2010-03-18T21:32:18","date_gmt":"2010-03-18T21:32:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=3068"},"modified":"2016-08-08T09:19:33","modified_gmt":"2016-08-08T17:19:33","slug":"life-success-coaching-life-coaching-clients-struggling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/life-success-coaching-life-coaching-clients-struggling\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Success Coaching Lies: Why Your Life Coaching Clients Are Struggling To Reach Their Goals"},"content":{"rendered":"

Why do people need your life coaching<\/a><\/strong> skills?\u00a0 Do you have anything tangible to offer your success coaching clients?\u00a0 It\u2019s sad to say that most people in the U.S. are not happy.\u00a0 They don\u2019t have the relationships, jobs, lifestyle they want.\u00a0 Whatever happened to the American Dream?\u00a0 Have your life coaching<\/strong> and success coaching clients bought into the lie that the economy is the reason for their lack of success?<\/p>\n

Your Life Coaching Clients Must Take Accountability For Their Beliefs<\/h3>\n

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Life Success Coaching<\/a><\/strong> Lie #1:\u00a0 The reason why your life coaching<\/strong> clients are not successful is not external.\u00a0 It\u2019s not their choice of partner or their pain from a bad relationship.\u00a0 It\u2019s not because of their poor health, the health of the economy, or the health or their mothers in-laws.\u00a0 Lack of success is based on your clients\u2019 beliefs.\u00a0 Beliefs dictate the quality and quantity of action, and action (or lack of) determines results.<\/p>\n

Self Talk Will NOT Help Your Life Success Coaching Clients Gain Happiness<\/h3>\n

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Life Success Coaching<\/strong> Lie #2:\u00a0 Self talk will not change your life coaching<\/span> client\u2019s core beliefs. Unfortunately, many people try to change their beliefs through adding positive affirmations to their daily rituals.\u00a0 They cover up their beliefs, instead of dealing with them.\u00a0 Just like covering liver in chocolate sauce will not get kids to eat it, covering up disempowering beliefs will not change your clients\u2019 inner game.\u00a0 You have to do something radical; like wrapping the liver in a napkin and throwing it over the back fence.\u00a0 At least then the neighbor\u2019s dog might eat it and get rid of it permanently.<\/p>\n

In Life Coaching, Taking Action Does Not Guarantee Results<\/h3>\n

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Life Success Coaching<\/strong> Lie #3:\u00a0 Changing your action doesn\u2019t mean that your life coaching<\/span> clients will get better results.\u00a0 If you clients believe that they are unworthy for example, they will not consistently take the action needed to succeed.\u00a0 If they don\u2019t believe they can do the job, they will sabotage their efforts.\u00a0 Something will go wrong.<\/p>\n

So what can you do to improve your life success coaching<\/span> client\u2019s chances of reaching their goals?\u00a0 You must transform their core beliefs.\u00a0 Use your life coaching skills to help your clients identify their limiting beliefs, the pay-off they get from operating the way they do, and then help them replace their old beliefs with more empowering ones.\u00a0 Help them see how living the way they have been will lead to their destruction, and that the only way to live the life they want will be to make drastic changes.\u00a0 This is not the easy way, it\u2019s not the fast way, but your client\u2019s lives will never be the same.<\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why do people need your life coaching skills?\u00a0 Do you have anything tangible to offer your success coaching clients?\u00a0 It\u2019s sad to say that most people in the U.S. are not happy.\u00a0 They don\u2019t have the relationships, jobs, lifestyle they want.\u00a0 Whatever happened to the American Dream?\u00a0 Have your life coaching and success coaching clients […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[194,220],"tags":[983,1004],"class_list":["post-3068","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-life-coaching","category-life-success-coaching","tag-life-coaching","tag-life-success-coaching","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3068","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3068"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3068\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18035,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3068\/revisions\/18035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3068"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3068"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3068"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}