{"id":3018,"date":"2010-03-11T21:56:10","date_gmt":"2010-03-11T21:56:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=3018"},"modified":"2016-08-11T02:37:48","modified_gmt":"2016-08-11T10:37:48","slug":"relationship-coach-women-pay-relationship-coach-salary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-women-pay-relationship-coach-salary\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Needs a Relationship Coach?  Are Women More Likely to Pay Your Relationship Coach Salary?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to become a <strong><a title=\"relationship coach\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2010\/03\/how-to-become-a-relationship-coach-relationship-coach-make-over-tips\/\" target=\"_self\">relationship coach<\/a><\/strong>, you need to market to women.\u00a0 Sure you can market to men as well, but in most homes women are the emotional leaders.\u00a0 And it will ultimately be up to them to decide if they want to pay your <strong><a title=\"relationship coach salary\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/09\/what-a-relationship-coach-must-never-do-the-key-to-increasing-your-relationship-coach-salary\/\" target=\"_self\">relationship coach salary<\/a><\/strong>.\u00a0 Even if they say they have to check with their husbands.\u00a0 Most <strong>relationship coach<\/strong>es in the U.S. will agree that husbands just want their wives to be happy.\u00a0 Unfortunately many of them have given up.\u00a0 They don\u2019t think anything will make a difference to their relationship long term; even hiring you and paying a moderate <strong>relationship coach salary<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>Work Through Wives to Help Regain a Sense of Hope For Your Relationship Coach Clients<\/h3>\n<p>So how do you as a <strong>relationship coach<\/strong> get men to regain their sense of hope?\u00a0 The easiest way is to work through the wife.\u00a0 She is the one with the higher drive for love and connection, and is more likely to be in enough pain to see you as the only way to living happily ever after.\u00a0 If you have the tools to be able to prove that in your initial session, she will happily pay your <strong>relationship coach salary<\/strong> and do what needs to be done.<\/p>\n<h3>In Order to Pay Your Relationship Coach Salary it is Essential to Ask Wives to do One Simple Thing<\/h3>\n<p>What kind of hoops does a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach<\/span> have to get women to jump through to get their men to fall in love with them again?\u00a0 Controversial as this may sound, it\u2019s not about dressing up or dressing down.\u00a0 The key is to get your clients to treat their husbands as their hero.\u00a0 \u201cThat\u2019s ridiculous\u201d you might say, \u201cNo one is going to pay a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach salary<\/span> for that type of Pollyanna type of advise.\u201d\u00a0 But as it is frequently said, what you focus on will increase.\u00a0 Have your <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach<\/span> clients focus, and reward what is great.<\/p>\n<h3>Become a Relationship Coach That Gets Clients to Ask the Hard Questions<\/h3>\n<p>If you can get your relationship coach clients to find out what their husbands really want, and find a way to deliver it to them; the relationship will transform.\u00a0 Does that sound sales-like?\u00a0 Sure, but how often have you heard people say something to the effect, \u201cI worked for four hours cooking this meal; the least you could do is wash the dishes.\u201d\u00a0 Did that person really want the elaborate meal?\u00a0 Or would it been even more valuable to have time together?\u00a0 It would be like someone painting your house orange without asking you, then charging you $5000.\u00a0 These are the tough conversations that make your <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach salary<\/span> worth paying.<\/p>\n<p>But what really makes you valuable as a relationship coach is to help your clients get their needs met at a higher level then they are currently getting met.\u00a0 What people say they want, is usually based on a much deeper need.\u00a0 And finding solutions that will help your clients get their needs met will make your relationship coach salary seem small compared to the value they receive.<\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<\/p>\n<p>JTS Advisors Bi-Designated Strategy and Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to become a relationship coach, you need to market to women.\u00a0 Sure you can market to men as well, but in most homes women are the emotional leaders.\u00a0 And it will ultimately be up to them to decide if they want to pay your relationship coach salary.\u00a0 Even if they say they [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[189,186],"tags":[978,975],"class_list":["post-3018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-relationship-coach","category-relationship-coach-salary","tag-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coach-salary","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3018"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18139,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions\/18139"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}