{"id":26566,"date":"2021-09-03T21:59:08","date_gmt":"2021-09-04T05:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=26566"},"modified":"2021-09-03T21:59:11","modified_gmt":"2021-09-04T05:59:11","slug":"when-your-coaching-clients-issues-are-your-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/when-your-coaching-clients-issues-are-your-own\/","title":{"rendered":"When Your Coaching Clients\u2019 Issues Are Your Own"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wasn\u2019t going to finish this email to you\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was in the middle of writing it\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;when suddenly I thought\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8220;This email sucks.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>\u201dIt\u2019s just not compelling enough.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I couldn\u2019t get past my issues about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s ironic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The whole point of this email is\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Wherever coaches have a problem&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>It stops them from helping their clients.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Luckily, I talked to my coach about this\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;and he noticed the irony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">HE SAID: <strong><em>\u201cYou\u2019re not going to help our students get unstuck\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">because YOU are stuck<\/span>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>And, coaches <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">aren\u2019t helping their own clients <\/span>get unstuck\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">because THEY are stuck<\/span>.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we talked, we both realized\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8230;coaches can get stuck <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">in exactly the same way that their clients are<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Separation\" class=\"wp-image-26567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3-640x360.jpg 640w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/3.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s no wonder they aren\u2019t able to help their clients much (at least with that issue).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s the same with my client&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2026a coach who doesn\u2019t believe she has enough time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>When her clients tell her they don\u2019t have enough time\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;she BELIEVES them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How could she not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She is nodding her head with the rest of the choir\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;agreeing in her heart that &#8220;everyone is busy&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I called her on it the other day\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I ASKED HER: <strong><em>\u201cWhat has you let your client stay stuck in their time limitations?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">MY CLIENT SAID: <strong><em>\u201cI can\u2019t help but empathize with them.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I SAID: <strong><em>\u201cWhat you call \u2018empathy\u2019 seems to stop you from being a stand for your client to transform\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;it gets you off the hook.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">MY CLIENT SAID: <strong><em>\u201cDo you think my empathy is bad?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I REASSURED HER: <strong><em>\u201cYour empathy is not the problem&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;but it\u2019s a symptom of the fact that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you share your clients limitations<\/span>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>And so instead of helping them resolve it\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;you end up <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">commiserating and connecting with them<\/span> on that problem\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>how bad it is.<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><em>how intractable it is.<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><em>how impossible it is to change it.<\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>And now you\u2019ve validated that your client can\u2019t change.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>And that\u2019s driven by an issue that you can totally transform\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;but you haven\u2019t until now.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Until you handle this for yourself&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Or at least get it out of your \u2018space\u2019 during coaching sessions\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>You\u2019re thoroughly incapable of helping this client\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8230;at least when it comes to their \u2018time\u2019 issues.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Shared Growth\" class=\"wp-image-26568\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4-640x360.jpg 640w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/4.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Then I took my client through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">the three steps to overcome shared limitations in a coaching relationship<\/span>:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Connect with your purpose as a coach:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most coaches <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">will do way more for others than they will just to help themselves<\/span>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;so this purpose may be the key to making real progress in this area of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bonus is that you\u2019ll empower your client as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re not fully committed to helping your client&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;you\u2019ll likely take the easy way out and not do the hard work to get past this limitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Get clear on <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">how your client\u2019s issue is similar to your own<\/span>:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ask, <strong><em>\u201cHow does their issue <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">apply to me<\/span>?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ask, <strong><em>\u201cHow do I have <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">that same limitation<\/span> in my life?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have an answer to these questions, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">then you have seen your own limitatio<\/span>n. What can you do to transform it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you don\u2019t have an answer to these questions, then you haven\u2019t seen your limitation. This is an area to get coaching on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>If you\u2019re <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">still struggling with this issue<\/span> yourself, or are held back in your endevour to support your client in this area\u2026 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Bring it up with your client<\/span>:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why bring it up? Why talk about it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>It&#8217;ll <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">shed light on a significant barrier<\/span> to the value and effectiveness of the coaching.<\/li><li>It&#8217;ll help <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">preserve the value of the coaching<\/span> despite that issue.<\/li><li>It&#8217;ll makes you accountable to your client for the impact of this issue.<\/li><li>It puts this issue \u201con the mat\u201d for you and your client to resolve.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019re also setting an example, potentially inspiring your client to take ownership of their own limitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:auto 48%\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/qs-free-video-2021\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/QS-VIDEO-COURSE.jpg\" alt=\"How to Build a Profitable Coaching Business in 30 Days VIDEO COURSE\" class=\"wp-image-25019 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/QS-VIDEO-COURSE.jpg 800w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/QS-VIDEO-COURSE-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/QS-VIDEO-COURSE-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/QS-VIDEO-COURSE-640x400.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>(NOTE: If you\u2019ve been waiting to start your coaching business, or were wondering if you can do it profitably, then you need to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/qs-free-video-2021\/\">watch this video<\/a><\/strong>. In the video, I\u2019ll explain how to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/qs-free-video-2021\/\">How to Build a Profitable Coaching Business&nbsp;in 30 Days<\/a><\/strong>. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/qs-free-video-2021\/\">Click HERE now<\/a><\/strong> to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/qs-free-video-2021\/\">watch the video<\/a><\/strong>.)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u201cHow do I know if my limitation might be holding me back in a coaching relationship?\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My answer? Look for the following signs:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>You\u2019re thinking <strong><em>\u201cI don\u2019t know how to help them.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li>You\u2019re frustrated with your client\u2019s lack of progress.<\/li><li>You\u2019re <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">agreeing with their problems<\/span> and \u201creasons why not\u201d.<\/li><li>You\u2019re <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not showing up committed<\/span> to your client being unstoppable.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you see any of this, it\u2019s probably time to check in. Go through the steps above and see what comes up for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The areas where you can\u2019t help your client\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8230;are areas where you ARE your client.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>The areas where you can\u2019t help your client\u2026<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>&#8230;are areas where you ARE your client.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The clients you attract\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;are a reflection of your own limitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When your clients are stuck\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;it\u2019s a reflection of your own limitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The stress you feel about your client\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;is a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">reflection of your own blindspot<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Don\u2019t confuse the symptom with the cause.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your client being stuck <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">is a symptom<\/span>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8230;YOU\u2019RE the cause.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(At least <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">as long as you\u2019re the coach<\/span> in that coaching relationship)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Whenever you are struggling to coach your clients through something\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8230;ask yourself how it applies to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you see how it applies&#8230; Great!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But if <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you don\u2019t see how it applies<\/span>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">that\u2019s when it applies the MOST<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s a blindspot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Blindspots always have the biggest impact&#8230;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;and cause the biggest limitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">SEE your blindspots.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">TRANSCEND the suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">TRANSFORM lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Colette &#8220;Causing The Coaching&#8221; Coiner<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26167\" width=\"209\" height=\"207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001.png 682w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001-300x298.png 300w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/bio-circles-jeffrey-t-sooey2.001-640x635.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 209px) 100vw, 209px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/bio\/colette-seymann\/\">Dr. Colette Coiner, PCC, PT, DPT, FAAOMPT<\/a><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Associate Dean, <strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/mastercoachuniversity.com\/about\/\" target=\"_blank\">Master Coach University<\/a><\/strong><br><strong><a href=\"mailto:drcolettecoiner@coachestrainingblog.com\">drcolettecoiner@coachestrainingblog.com<\/a><\/strong><br><strong>858-232-3739<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-social-links has-large-icon-size is-style-logos-only is-layout-flex wp-block-social-links-is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"wp-social-link wp-social-link-facebook wp-block-social-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/colette.seymann\" class=\"wp-block-social-link-anchor\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\"><path d=\"M12 2C6.5 2 2 6.5 2 12c0 5 3.7 9.1 8.4 9.9v-7H7.9V12h2.5V9.8c0-2.5 1.5-3.9 3.8-3.9 1.1 0 2.2.2 2.2.2v2.5h-1.3c-1.2 0-1.6.8-1.6 1.6V12h2.8l-.4 2.9h-2.3v7C18.3 21.1 22 17 22 12c0-5.5-4.5-10-10-10z\"><\/path><\/svg><span class=\"wp-block-social-link-label screen-reader-text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n\n<li class=\"wp-social-link wp-social-link-youtube wp-block-social-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/MasterCoachUniversity\" class=\"wp-block-social-link-anchor\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\"><path d=\"M21.8,8.001c0,0-0.195-1.378-0.795-1.985c-0.76-0.797-1.613-0.801-2.004-0.847c-2.799-0.202-6.997-0.202-6.997-0.202 h-0.009c0,0-4.198,0-6.997,0.202C4.608,5.216,3.756,5.22,2.995,6.016C2.395,6.623,2.2,8.001,2.2,8.001S2,9.62,2,11.238v1.517 c0,1.618,0.2,3.237,0.2,3.237s0.195,1.378,0.795,1.985c0.761,0.797,1.76,0.771,2.205,0.855c1.6,0.153,6.8,0.201,6.8,0.201 s4.203-0.006,7.001-0.209c0.391-0.047,1.243-0.051,2.004-0.847c0.6-0.607,0.795-1.985,0.795-1.985s0.2-1.618,0.2-3.237v-1.517 C22,9.62,21.8,8.001,21.8,8.001z M9.935,14.594l-0.001-5.62l5.404,2.82L9.935,14.594z\"><\/path><\/svg><span class=\"wp-block-social-link-label screen-reader-text\">YouTube<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wasn\u2019t going to finish this email to you\u2026 I was in the middle of writing it\u2026 &#8230;when suddenly I thought\u2026 &#8220;This email sucks.\u201d \u201dIt\u2019s just not compelling enough.\u201d I couldn\u2019t get past my issues about it. 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