{"id":2245,"date":"2009-10-06T14:00:10","date_gmt":"2009-10-06T14:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=2245"},"modified":"2016-08-12T10:00:15","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T18:00:15","slug":"become-a-life-coach-committed-to-getting-results-at-all-costs-how-to-become-a-parenting-coach-who-is-hated-by-their-own-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/become-a-life-coach-committed-to-getting-results-at-all-costs-how-to-become-a-parenting-coach-who-is-hated-by-their-own-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Become a Life Coach Who is Committed to Getting Results At All Costs:  How to Become a Parenting Coach Who is Hated by Their Own Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most people <strong><a title=\"become a life coach\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/09\/why-become-a-life-coach-make-your-list-of-10-reason-to-become-a-coach\/\" target=\"_self\">become a life coach<\/a><\/strong> because they want to help people, but when you <strong><a title=\"become a parenting coach\" href=\" https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/05\/become-a-parenting-coach-and-get-exited-about-the-potential-salary-of-a-life-coach\/\" target=\"_self\">become a parenting coach<\/a><\/strong> there will be a large group of people who may actually hate you.\u00a0 This group is made up of the children and teens of the clients for which you <strong>become a parenting coach<\/strong>, and possibly even your own children.\u00a0 When you <strong>become a life coach<\/strong> who is ready to stand on the front lines of relationships, you will the parents you coach will rank their relationship as the greatest priority.\u00a0 And the truth is, that\u2019s not going to be very popular.<\/p>\n<h3>Become a Life Coach that Helps Parents Realize the Kids Can\u2019t Run the Show<\/h3>\n<p>The biggest obstacle to <strong>become a parenting coach<\/strong> is that parents won\u2019t usually see a problem until they experience a significant amount of pain.\u00a0 If the kids are happy, isn\u2019t everyone else happy?\u00a0 As someone who has <strong>become a life coach<\/strong> you know better, because if they kids are running the show, there is no certainty in the home.\u00a0 You can\u2019t take them anywhere, you can\u2019t find a babysitter and leave them with anyone else, and the person you loved and married will become a complete stranger.<\/p>\n<h3>When You Become a Parenting Coach it\u2019s Your Responsibility to Help Clients Set Boundaries with Their Kids<\/h3>\n<p>But if you can <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">become a parenting coach<\/span> who can help their clients take a stand on what is acceptable and what isn\u2019t, the entire family can share an amazing life.\u00a0 Dig into your tool box that you used to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">become a life coach<\/span>.\u00a0 Get the parents on board enough to see that if they are not perceived as a united front, they will not be able to withstand the attacks from their children when they don\u2019t get what they wanted.\u00a0 Standing firm as allies is the only way out without injury.<\/p>\n<h3>So, What are the Basic Steps to Become a Parenting Coach?<\/h3>\n<p>Here are the basic steps to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">become a parenting coach<\/span>.\u00a0\u00a0 First, have your clients establish clear boundaries about what is acceptable and what isn\u2019t.\u00a0 Next be ready for those boundaries to be tested.\u00a0 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Become a life coach<\/span> who has helped set up mutual support between the parents for these times.\u00a0 And finally help your clients set up rewards for positive behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Become a life coach who helps their clients paint a clear picture about what their lives would be like if they lived their lives with healthy boundaries around parenting.\u00a0 Become a parenting coach who helps your clients recognize the first steps they need to take is establishing expectations for behavior as well as setting aside time for each other.\u00a0 When the children see their parents as a united, loving front; they will feel safe and secure.\u00a0 They will still test boundaries, but there will be peace at the end of the day.<\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<\/p>\n<p>JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people become a life coach because they want to help people, but when you become a parenting coach there will be a large group of people who may actually hate you.\u00a0 This group is made up of the children and teens of the clients for which you become a parenting coach, and possibly even [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,150],"tags":[822,942],"class_list":["post-2245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-become-a-life-coach","category-become-a-parenting-coach","tag-become-a-life-coach","tag-become-a-parenting-coach","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2245"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2245\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18555,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2245\/revisions\/18555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}