{"id":2171,"date":"2009-09-23T22:10:43","date_gmt":"2009-09-23T22:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=2171"},"modified":"2016-08-12T09:52:29","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T17:52:29","slug":"relationship-coach-training-basics-coach-training-you-can-use-determine-couple-compatible-during-first-session","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-training-basics-coach-training-you-can-use-determine-couple-compatible-during-first-session\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Coach Training Basics:\u00a0 Coach Training You Can Use to Determine if a Couple is Compatible During the First Session"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wondered if can you take what you know from your\u00a0life<strong> <a title=\"coach training\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/09\/coach-training-success-tips-how-to-survive-life-coaching-training-programs\/\" target=\"_self\">coach training<\/a><\/strong> and apply it to assess whether your relationship clients are truly compatible without signing up for extensive <a title=\"relationship coach training\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/05\/relationship-coach-training-coaching-techniques-to-help-people-find-harmony\/\" target=\"_self\"><strong>relationship coach training<\/strong><\/a>?\u00a0 Is there a way to simplify <strong>relationship coach training<\/strong> so you can start helping your existing clients right away?\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0One of the keys to a successful relationship is shared values and needs.\u00a0 A lot of pain and suffering could be avoided if people took a more objective look at relationships in the beginning.\u00a0 Here are some <strong>coach training<\/strong> principles to help you lead people to a new awareness of what type of glue is holding a relationship together.<\/p>\n<h3>Relationship Coach Training Principle #1:\u00a0 Look at Your Clients Values<\/h3>\n<p>There are two types of values; those people move toward and those people move away from.\u00a0 Some examples of values people move toward are love, trust, heath, success, excitement, fun, courage, intelligence and adventure.\u00a0 Some examples of values people move away from are fear, sadness, anger, violence, selfishness, arrogance, doubt and failure.\u00a0 The key of this <strong>coach training<\/strong> is to identify the top values of each partner and look for compatibility. \u00a0Use this <strong>relationship coach training<\/strong> principle to help clients see that it&#8217;s difficult to connect if one person is attracted to excitement and the other values comfort?<\/p>\n<h3>Relationship Coach Training Principle #2:\u00a0 Look at Your Clients Needs<\/h3>\n<p>You can take basic <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">coach training<\/span> on the four basic needs to the next level and apply it to relationship compatibility and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach training<\/span>.\u00a0 What needs drive a person\u2019s actions?\u00a0 One stereotypical male pattern is to be significance and certainty driven, and many women are driven by love &amp; connection and variety.\u00a0 Is it a wonder why it\u2019s so hard for couples to stay together if one person is moving the furniture around on a weekly basis or planning large parties while the other just wants to come home and surf the internet after conquering the world at work.<\/p>\n<h3>Relationship Coach Training Principle #3:\u00a0 Do the Math<\/h3>\n<p>What does it take for a couple to be compatible? \u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Relationship coach training<\/span> will tell you that, ideally a couple should share the top two values and have the same needs in the same order.\u00a0 Is that really possible?\u00a0 Is there any <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">coach training<\/span> to help those people who don\u2019t share similar needs and values?<\/p>\n<p>With a little relationship coach training you might try to help couple who has decided to go against the odds.\u00a0 Help them find common interests and learn to respect and help each other with their goals.\u00a0 Some coach training tools can be used to mitigate problems in areas of contention, even if it\u2019s just making time for each other and visiting the other person\u2019s world.<\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<\/p>\n<p>JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wondered if can you take what you know from your\u00a0life coach training and apply it to assess whether your relationship clients are truly compatible without signing up for extensive relationship coach training?\u00a0 Is there a way to simplify relationship coach training so you can start helping your existing clients right away?\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0One [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[65,146],"tags":[864,938],"class_list":["post-2171","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-coach-training","category-relationship-coach-training","tag-coach-training","tag-relationship-coach-training","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2171","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2171"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2171\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18542,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2171\/revisions\/18542"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}