You don’t have to be a relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> or a physics professor to know that opposites attract.\u00a0 However, the first step in how to become a relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> is to completely understand the difference between masculine and feminine polarity.\u00a0 One of the biggest problems a relationship faces over time is the loss of polarity. As man and woman become more similar, the attraction diminishes, and what was once exciting becomes dull.\u00a0 But, a good relationship coach<\/strong> teaches couples that it doesn’t have to be that way. \u00a0Here’s how to become a relationship coach<\/strong> who understands the cause and the solution.<\/p>\n Step 1:\u00a0 How to Become a Relationship Coach<\/strong> Who Understands Masculine Energy.<\/p>\n Masculine energy is about directed force.\u00a0 Think about our hunter\/gather ancestors.\u00a0 The men went out with their spears, stalked their prey, and used all their energy to throw\u00a0their spears\u00a0to make a kill and bring home food.\u00a0 The masculine man is all about getting that ultimate “touchdown” in whatever form that is.\u00a0 He is signficance driven.\u00a0 He wants power and to see that power grow.\u00a0 This is the male “ego.”\u00a0 He is also certainty driven.\u00a0 Like an immovable rock, he wants to be centered and solid.\u00a0 A relationship coach<\/strong> understands that without masculine energy, feminine energy is diminished.<\/p>\n Step 2:\u00a0 How to Become a Relationship Coach<\/span> Who Understands Feminine Energy.<\/p>\n Feminine energy is also about power, although her type of power is not as focused.\u00a0 It is much more flowing and free.\u00a0 When a woman with this type of energy walks into a room, it effects the whole room.\u00a0 The feminine side of a woman is driven by love, connnection and variety.\u00a0 While masculine energy is centered, feminine energy is stormy and exciting.\u00a0 This is drive for variety is why woman get bored easily, and it is what allows them to multi-task.\u00a0 Women have all this freedom, but are looking for some contraints that create certainty.\u00a0 A relationship coach<\/span> knows that this is why she looked for a relationship in the first place.<\/p>\n Step 3:\u00a0 How to Become a Relationship Coach<\/span> Who Understands the Need for Polarity.<\/p>\n What often happens when a man and woman unite is that the man tries to solve a woman’s problems when she really just wants to connect.\u00a0 Sometimes a man will actually try to impose his own masculine style on a woman’s style, resulting in a\u00a0solution to one problem but creating it’s own.\u00a0 When a woman gets praise for becoming more masculine in her approach, she tends to loose some of her feminine energy.\u00a0 This also can happen in reverse.\u00a0 A woman might chip away at that tough masculine shell over time, causing him to soften and become more feminine.\u00a0 As their differences become more narrow, the natural exciting polarity that once brought them together starts to fade.<\/p>\n The key to become a relationship coach<\/span> who can bring back the sparks in a relationship is to help couples respect and relate to each other’s primary masculine or feminine traits.\u00a0 While it’s true that no one is completely masculine or feminine, without these differences relationships become friendships.\u00a0 But as a relationship coach, you know that it doesn’t have to be so.\u00a0 With proper care, that spark can last a lifetime.<\/p>\n Colette Seymann<\/p>\n JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Relationship Coach Basics: Male and Female Polarity You don’t have to be a relationship coach or a physics professor to know that opposites attract.\u00a0 However, the first step in how to become a relationship coach is to completely understand the difference between masculine and feminine polarity.\u00a0 One of the biggest problems a relationship faces over 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Steps that Demonstrate How to Become a Relationship Coach that Helps Couples Find Excitement in Their Relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n
As a Relationship Coach it is Your Job to Help Your Client Re-Discover Polarity<\/h3>\n