{"id":2159,"date":"2009-09-21T19:06:20","date_gmt":"2009-09-21T19:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=2159"},"modified":"2016-08-12T09:52:02","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T17:52:02","slug":"relationship-coach-tools-become-a-relationship-coach-who-gets-results","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-tools-become-a-relationship-coach-who-gets-results\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Coach Tools:\u00a0Become a Relationship Coach Who Gets Results"},"content":{"rendered":"

What’s the quickest way to to become a relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> who gets results?\u00a0 Start by finding out what your clients wants from each other.\u00a0 Are they bored with each other or having trouble relating?\u00a0 Once you become a relationship who knows the starting point and end point, you can choose from following relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> tools to begin the coaching process.<\/p>\n

Become a Relationship Coach that Knows What the Client is Looking For<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach<\/strong> Tools for Clients Who Are Bored With Each Other:<\/p>\n

Have they lost that loving feeling?\u00a0 Have they become best friends?\u00a0 Has the woman become the football buddy or has the man become so sensitive they go for manicures together?\u00a0 Use relationship coach<\/strong> tools that create more polarity and excitement.\u00a0 Have the woman get into her feminine nature by taking a 2 hour bubble bath, getting a manicure or pedicure, lighting candles, dancing around and just having fun.\u00a0 Have the man go into the cave for some alone time, hang out with his buddies, and do things that are challenging to get in touch with his masculine side.\u00a0 Become a relationship coach<\/strong> who helps create rituals to induce more polarity in the relationship, which will remind your clients why they were attracted to each other in the first place.<\/p>\n

Use Different Relationship Coach Techniques for Different Situations<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach<\/span> Tools for Clients Who Can’t Get Along With Each Other:<\/p>\n

One quick way out of this situation is to become a relationship coach<\/strong> who motivates clients to make a list of MUSTs and MUST NOTs.\u00a0 That way each person can see how they measure up.\u00a0 Instill a reward system for good behavior.\u00a0 Every time they do something really good for the relationship, they put a quarter in a jar.\u00a0 It may sound silly, but the results are amazing.<\/p>\n

Another great relationship tool is to re-wire negative behaviors and reframe key issues and disagreements.\u00a0 Become a relationship coach<\/span> who can interrupt patterns and get clients to think about situations in a different way.\u00a0 A wife might say, “He doesn’t love me, he won’t take care of me.”\u00a0 An alternative might be, “He does love you and you just need to\u00a0soften up a bit more so he can.”<\/p>\n

If One Relationship Technique Doesn’t Work, Try a Different Relationship Coach Tool<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach<\/span> Tools for Clients Who Are Ready to Take Their Relationship to the Next Level:<\/p>\n

For those clients who are ready for the relationship of their dreams, become a relationship coach<\/a><\/span> who teaches them how to create a raving fan out of their partner.\u00a0 In this 90 day exercise, have each person try to meet their partners needs as close to 100% as possible.\u00a0 Each person gets to rank where their needs are being currently met in the relationship in terms of certainty, significance, love\/connection and variety.\u00a0 Then each person tells the other specific actions their partner can take to help them get their needs met at a higher level.\u00a0 By the end of the 90 day period, each partner should be “raving” about how great their partner is.\u00a0 Now that is a goal worth taking on.<\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What’s the quickest way to to become a relationship coach who gets results?\u00a0 Start by finding out what your clients wants from each other.\u00a0 Are they bored with each other or having trouble relating?\u00a0 Once you become a relationship who knows the starting point and end point, you can choose from following relationship coach tools […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[28,189],"tags":[839,978],"class_list":["post-2159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-become-a-relationship-coach","category-relationship-coach","tag-become-a-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coach","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2159"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2159\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18540,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2159\/revisions\/18540"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}