{"id":2146,"date":"2009-09-18T15:09:48","date_gmt":"2009-09-18T15:09:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=2146"},"modified":"2016-08-12T09:48:01","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T17:48:01","slug":"becoming-a-relationship-coach-who-takes-on-the-biggest-relationship-challenge-of-all-relationship-coach-training-for-the-family-reunion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/becoming-a-relationship-coach-who-takes-on-the-biggest-relationship-challenge-of-all-relationship-coach-training-for-the-family-reunion\/","title":{"rendered":"Becoming\u00a0a Relationship Coach Who Takes On The Biggest Relationship Challenge\u00a0of All:\u00a0Relationship Coach Training for the Family Reunion"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought if of becoming a relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> for a family?\u00a0 It’s not uncommon to be a relationship coach<\/a><\/strong> for couples or business partners.\u00a0 But for the whole family including children, in-laws, parents, aunts and uncles?\u00a0 It sounds like a daunting task.\u00a0 But as you think about it, can you imagine all the\u00a0family gatherings that could be transformed with the help of\u00a0a relationship coach<\/strong>?\u00a0 And becoming a relationship coach<\/strong> for the whole family doesn’t mean you need everyone together. The dynamics of the group can usually be changed through one or two people who are willing to make a difference.\u00a0 What if you coached several key people to become relationship coach<\/strong>es within their own family?\u00a0 Here are some strategies.<\/p>\n

Becoming a Relationship Coach For Families is Worthwhile if you Can Help Your Clients Find Common or Complimentary Goals<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach<\/span> Strategy #1:\u00a0 Help your clients find common or complimentary goals.<\/p>\n

Have you ever noticed how even the most families pull together in times of crisis.\u00a0 Instead of making 3 or more totally different lives work together, sharing a common goal can also bring more unity.\u00a0 Why not make a family gathering into a goal?\u00a0 Becoming a relationship coach<\/strong> can be as simple as having people get together and share which outcomes are most important for the gathering.\u00a0 Aunt Sara wants to make sure the food is good and Uncle Paul wants to make sure he gets his favorite dessert.\u00a0 My brother wants to make sure he doesn’t miss the football game.\u00a0 By identifying which aspects are most important to each person, each person can get at least their top need met.<\/p>\n

As You Work With Your Relationship Coach Clients Help Them Find Their Strengths<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach<\/span> Strategy #2:\u00a0 Work with people’s strengths.<\/p>\n

You wouldn’t have grandma move the extra table and chairs up from the basement by herself, but no one wants to interrupt uncle Harry from his beloved football game.\u00a0 If you plan ahead so he won’t miss out on the game, he might really like to be the hero and do the heavy work.\u00a0 Instead of having the kids stay out of the way, find ways they can contribute.\u00a0 Even very young children can make special placecards for the family table, and find great satisfaction when their work is displayed.\u00a0 Becoming a relationship coach<\/span> means looking for opportunities.<\/p>\n

Becoming a Relationship Coach that Teaches Clients to Respect Others Natural Behavioral Styles Will Benefit Your Clients<\/h3>\n

Relationship Coach Strategy #3:\u00a0 Respect people’s natural behavioral styles.<\/p>\n

Without running DISC assessments on everyone, there are still ways to identify how to bring out the best in people.\u00a0 Becoming a relationship coach<\/span> means communicating effectively with people\u00a0while respecting their different behaviorial styles.\u00a0 Some people need a lot of detail, with others they only want to hear the basics.\u00a0 You don’t want to\u00a0give orders to the chief, but what do you do with all of those leaders in the group?\u00a0 Find out which projects they want to head up and let them head up their own teams.\u00a0 There are people who can respond quickly to changes in pace, and others who will start to get stressed if you move them from one project to another without allowing them to adequately complete the first task.<\/p>\n

Becoming a relationship coach for an entire family\u00a0can\u00a0be very rewarding.\u00a0\u00a0By teaching your clients some basic relationship coach strategies you can really leverage the benefit you provide to others without having a large conference call.\u00a0 And the effect of a few people who want to make a difference can be very inspirational.<\/p>\n

Colette Seymann<\/p>\n

JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought if of becoming a relationship coach for a family?\u00a0 It’s not uncommon to be a relationship coach for couples or business partners.\u00a0 But for the whole family including children, in-laws, parents, aunts and uncles?\u00a0 It sounds like a daunting task.\u00a0 But as you think about it, can you imagine all the\u00a0family […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[163,189],"tags":[955,978],"class_list":["post-2146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-becoming-a-relationship-coach","category-relationship-coach","tag-becoming-a-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coach","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2146"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18537,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2146\/revisions\/18537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}