{"id":1842,"date":"2009-07-22T13:00:34","date_gmt":"2009-07-22T13:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=1842"},"modified":"2016-08-12T08:00:09","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T16:00:09","slug":"relationship-coach-training-becoming-a-relationship-coach-who-understands-the-levels-of-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-training-becoming-a-relationship-coach-who-understands-the-levels-of-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Coach Training 101:  Becoming a Relationship Coach Who Understands the 3 Levels of a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The key to <a title=\"becoming a relationship coach\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/06\/becoming-relationship-coach-who-talks-their-talk-how-can-make-big-difference-your-life-coaching-salary\/\" target=\"_self\"><strong>becoming a relationship<\/strong><\/a> coach is understanding masculine and feminine energy.\u00a0 Of course men and women have a little of both types.\u00a0 <strong>Becoming a relationship coach<\/strong> who understands the 3 levels of a relationship will help you understand what drives people.\u00a0 This <a title=\"relationship coach\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/04\/how-to-become-a-relationship-coach-get-life-coach-clients-passionate-relationships\/\" target=\"_self\"><strong>relationship coach<\/strong><\/a> training will take you beyond the basics.<\/p>\n<h3>Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #1: The Macho Man<\/h3>\n<p>The first level is the macho man.\u00a0 You don\u2019t have to be a <strong>relationship coach<\/strong> to recognize this type.\u00a0 He wants it, he creates it, he goes after it, and doesn\u2019t care about anything else.\u00a0 This is the stereotypical \u2018bad boy\u2019.\u00a0 And it\u2019s attractive to a lot of women for a reason.\u00a0 <strong>Becoming a relationship coach <\/strong>who understands that masculine energy creates a polarity with a woman who is feminine will help you explain why some women keep going back to this type of guy.\u00a0 It\u2019s because she knows she can\u2019t control him and that\u2019s exciting.\u00a0 He\u2019s not always right but he\u2019s powerful, he\u2019s not always elegant but he\u2019s powerful.\u00a0 He\u2019s all about himself and he\u2019s ok with that.\u00a0 He\u2019s not going to become a <strong>relationship coach<\/strong> client.<\/p>\n<h3>Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #2: Why Men Change<\/h3>\n<p>In the process of <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">becoming relationship coach<\/span> you will understand that if you want a man to change, then change the woman he wants to be with.\u00a0 A man\u2019s greatest desire is to be with a real woman, someone who is feminine.\u00a0 It\u2019s their ultimate goal.\u00a0 And as women grew in their power in our in our society, men realized that they were going to have to grow beyond their macho man state.\u00a0 In the 70\u2019s men starting reading books and possibly even seeking out a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach<\/span> in order to find a way to connect with woman.\u00a0 They started taking yoga and eating quiche.<\/p>\n<h3>Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #3:\u00a0 The Sensitive Man<\/h3>\n<p>Thus the new, sensitive, conscious man emerged.\u00a0 He embraced love and could enjoy his feminine side.\u00a0 And women embraced it.\u00a0 It was so wonderful that no one could imagine hiring a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">relationship coach<\/span>.\u00a0 But in <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">becoming a relationship coach <\/span>you learned to see the writing on the wall.\u00a0 There was no polarity here; it was like having a girl friend.\u00a0 And eventually women got bored with this and wanted more.\u00a0 So what did they do?\u00a0\u00a0 They went back to the exciting macho man, leaving the sensitive man worrying that this guy wouldn\u2019t treat her right.<\/p>\n<h3>Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #4: The Third Alternative<\/h3>\n<p>Here\u2019s where becoming a relationship coach becomes exciting.\u00a0 Because you know as a <a title=\"relationship coach\" href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;ct=res&amp;cd=1&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com%2Fcompelling14Reasons.htm&amp;ei=iN5jSoPVJ5PUsQPm2oFn&amp;usg=AFQjCNErIb6HVyA883KbC8Mb9tcBuuYaAg&amp;sig2=VS9IUiKk0RPC05vQ8uFCfQ\" target=\"_blank\">relationship coach<\/a> there is a third alternative.\u00a0 This is the man who takes control and makes it happen, but also listens, respects and values what is important to his woman.\u00a0 He doesn\u2019t do it for his own gain.\u00a0 He does it for the love he has for the woman in his life so she doesn\u2019t have to do it.\u00a0 The problem is that few men will own this as a choice, because they are used to being feminine and trying to please the woman in their life.\u00a0 And few women will really realize that in allowing the man in their life to be masculine and not trying to control him, they will enjoy the benefits of a relationship with masculine and feminine polarity.\u00a0 And that\u2019s the basis for excitement will last.<\/p>\n<p>Colette Seymann<\/p>\n<p>JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The key to becoming a relationship coach is understanding masculine and feminine energy.\u00a0 Of course men and women have a little of both types.\u00a0 Becoming a relationship coach who understands the 3 levels of a relationship will help you understand what drives people.\u00a0 This relationship coach training will take you beyond the basics. 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