{"id":1822,"date":"2009-07-17T18:39:23","date_gmt":"2009-07-17T18:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=1822"},"modified":"2016-08-12T07:56:32","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T15:56:32","slug":"relationship-coach-tips-becoming-a-relationship-coach-keys-to-resolving-conflicts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/relationship-coach-tips-becoming-a-relationship-coach-keys-to-resolving-conflicts\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Coach Tips: Becoming a Relationship Coach Who Has the Keys to Resolving Conflicts"},"content":{"rendered":"

Just like the cost of business coaching more than pays for itself, finding a good relationship coach<\/strong><\/a> can be worth his weight in gold when love is on the line.\u00a0 Most conflicts can be solved with awareness and appreciation.\u00a0 Here are 3 keys to becoming a relationship coach<\/strong><\/a> who is able to help resolve just about any conflict.<\/p>\n

Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #1: Make Sure Your Client is Ready for Love<\/h3>\n

The first step to becoming relationship coach<\/strong> is to make sure your clients are looking for a relationship to magnify what they already experience.\u00a0 If they\u2019re looking to get love from a relationship before they love themselves, it\u2019s like two starving people trying to get each other\u2019s food.\u00a0\u00a0 As a relationship coach<\/strong>, when you see this pattern bring it to your clients\u2019 attention.\u00a0 Help them find ways to nurture and love themselves.\u00a0 This can be as basic for some as self care, diet and exercise.<\/p>\n

Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #2: Know How to Counteract Stress<\/h3>\n

The second key to becoming a relationship coach<\/strong> is to bring the awareness to your clients that when things go wrong, most people start reacting.\u00a0 Stress is actually a code word for \u2018fear\u2019.\u00a0 When people start feeling that things are going wrong, they aren\u2019t good enough to make it work, and there\u2019s no chance to improve; it\u2019s up to you as the relationship coach<\/strong> to help them shift to a more powerful state of beliefs, language, and physiology.<\/p>\n

Another key aspect to becoming a relationship coach<\/span> is to help clients learn to identify when that fear is from the past or present.\u00a0 If an event triggers emotions that are disproportionate to the event, it\u2019s likely to stem from previous memories.\u00a0 And the subconscious part of the brain doesn\u2019t recognize \u2018time.\u2019\u00a0 An event recalled from the past can produce the same vivid emotional response that it did even decades before.\u00a0 As a relationship coach<\/span> you can spend a few minutes and help that person re-wire the old pattern.<\/p>\n

Tips for Becoming a Relationship Coach #3: Help Your Client \u201cSee\u201d Their Partner<\/h3>\n

The third key to becoming a relationship coach<\/span> is to help your clients look at their partners through the eyes of appreciating what is already great.\u00a0 Become a relationship coach<\/span> who knows that a shift in one of the partners can dramatically alter the course of a relationship\u2026for better or worse.\u00a0 General compliments won\u2019t work, and clients should be prepared to back up what they say with an explanation of why they appreciate certain qualities or behaviors in their mate.\u00a0 A little here goes a long way.<\/p>\n

A Relationship Coach Can Make All the Difference<\/h3>\n

Becoming a relationship coach<\/a> with these principles will put you on the path toward making a real impact on your clients\u2019 lives.\u00a0 Become a relationship coach who can quickly and expertly cut through the stories of blame and get to the client\u2019s underlying that is keeping them from getting the love they are looking for.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Just like the cost of business coaching more than pays for itself, finding a good relationship coach can be worth his weight in gold when love is on the line.\u00a0 Most conflicts can be solved with awareness and appreciation.\u00a0 Here are 3 keys to becoming a relationship coach who is able to help resolve just […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[28,189],"tags":[955,978],"class_list":["post-1822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-become-a-relationship-coach","category-relationship-coach","tag-becoming-a-relationship-coach","tag-relationship-coach","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1822","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1822"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1822\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18477,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1822\/revisions\/18477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1822"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1822"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1822"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}