{"id":1058,"date":"2009-05-06T00:53:15","date_gmt":"2009-05-06T00:53:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/?p=1058"},"modified":"2016-08-12T00:20:48","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T08:20:48","slug":"how-do-i-become-a-coach-make-a-difference-45-minutes-life-coaching-training-get-to-core-issue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/how-do-i-become-a-coach-make-a-difference-45-minutes-life-coaching-training-get-to-core-issue\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do I Become a Coach Who Can Make a Difference in a Client\u2019s Life in 45 Minutes or Less?  Life Coaching Training to Get to The Core Issue"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><strong>How Fast Can You Coach? \u00a0How Do I Become a Coach of The Speedy Set?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>One of the most common questions coaches and potential coaches ask is, \u201c<strong><a title=\"how do i become a coach\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/05\/how-do-i-become-a-life-coach-when-my-life-is-a-mess-life-coach-tips\/\" target=\"_self\">How do I become a coach<\/a><\/strong> who can make a difference in a client\u2019s life in a single session?\u201d \u00a0The key is a quick and accurate diagnosis. \u00a0Without it, all the <strong><a title=\"life coaching training\" href=\"https:\/\/coachestrainingblog.com\/becomeacoach\/2009\/02\/salary-of-a-life-coach-life-coach-training-make-the-difference\/\" target=\"_self\">life coaching training<\/a><\/strong> in the world won\u2019t help you.<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<h3>Life Coaching Training on What Your Coaching Client Wants: How Do I Become a Coach Who Can Deliver That?<\/h3>\n<div>\u201c<strong>How do I become a coach<\/strong> who finds out what their client really wants?\u201d \u00a0The first answer is not always what your client really wants. \u00a0More often than not it is a smoke screen. \u00a0Follow up with questioning that helps you gain a deeper understanding. \u00a0Ask question such as , \u201cWhy is that important to you?\u201d \u00a0\u201cWhat will it mean to you when you achieve that?\u201d<\/div>\n<div>The next step is to ask, \u201c<strong>How do I become a coach<\/strong> who finds out what their client really needs?\u201d \u00a0 Give your client a little <strong>life coaching training<\/strong> on the 4 basic human needs:<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>Significance: \u00a0The need to feel important, needed, wanted and worthy.<\/div>\n<div>Love\/Connection: \u00a0The need for feeling connected with and loved by others.<\/div>\n<div>Certainty: \u00a0The need for security, comfort and consistency.<\/div>\n<div>Variety: \u00a0The need for challenge or a variation in experiences.<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<h3>How Do I Become a Coach That Taps Into My Clients Hidden Motivation? \u00a0Life Coaching Training on &#8216;Needs Analysis&#8217;<\/h3>\n<div>After their <strong>life coaching training<\/strong> on these needs, have your clients rank where they feel each need is being met on a scale of 0-10 right now. \u00a0What needs aren\u2019t being met by their current behavior? \u00a0Which needs will be met at a higher level when they achieve their goals?<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<h3>Life Coaching Training on the Preventing Factors: How Do I Become a Coach Who Find The Real Problem(s)?<\/h3>\n<div>Often when coaches get to this point they ask themselves, \u201c<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">How do I become a coach<\/span> who can figure out what is preventing them from getting what they need?\u201d One important piece of life coaching training is to understand how they are currently getting their needs met. \u00a0What they are doing now? \u00a0Are they walking on eggshells around their spouse? \u00a0Hiding from the world by being dishonest with who they really are and showing up wearing a mask? \u00a0Once you are clear with that, find out what their fuel of choice is. \u00a0Think of the fuel as an emotional pattern, beliefs, language patterns, or physiology (heart rate, movement patterns and posture, the way they breathe). \u00a0 For example, when faced with an obstacle or challenge does your client go into a fearful pattern or burst out in anger?<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<h3>How Do I Become a Coach Who Can Connect The Dots? \u00a0Life Coaching Training on Bringing it All Together For Your Client<\/h3>\n<div>At last you are ready to ask, \u201c<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">How do I become a coach<\/span> who can relate the diagnosis to ask significant emotional events or wounds. \u00a0Is your client more certainty driven from a loss of a parent at a young age? \u00a0Or does your client protect himself from a painful past event by going into an angry pattern and looking for significance?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Once you have all this information, it\u2019s just a matter of connecting the dots to find the core issue. \u00a0Then you can use your <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a title=\"life coach training\" href=\"http:\/\/www.pccca.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">life coaching training<\/a><\/span> to help your clients make a powerful change.<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>Colette Seymann<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>JTS Advisors Designated Accountability Coach<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How Fast Can You Coach? \u00a0How Do I Become a Coach of The Speedy Set? . One of the most common questions coaches and potential coaches ask is, \u201cHow do I become a coach who can make a difference in a client\u2019s life in a single session?\u201d \u00a0The key is a quick and accurate diagnosis. 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