Sports Psychology and Coaching: Lessons From a Youth Sports Coach

Working with athletes to improve their game requires the best sports psychology and coaching skills you have. It also requires lessons from a youth sports coach.

You’ve seen the youth coach – the dad who lugs around the bag of equipment to every
practice. Yes, those dads, the ones without fancy certifications, extensive knowledge, or years of training. They are not sports psychologists and coaching experts, but they have a few lessons to teach you.

These coaches are mere volunteers, but they have often gained experience coaching at the hardest levels. Sports psychology and coaching experts would be wise to learn from the lowly youth coach. Ever coach a group of eight-year old girls? Or twelve-year old boys? If you have, you wouldn’t be dismissing the ability of these coaches.

You would be placing them on a pedestal and admiring them for their patience, perseverance, and prowess.

What Can Youth Sports Coaches Teach Sports Psychology and Coaching Experts?

* Respect

* Discipline

* Fun

The 3 Lessons You Can Learn From a Youth Sports Coach

When you coach a bunch of kids, it’s all about respect. As a coach, you have to respect
the kids, many of whom are not in any way, shape, or form, athletes. But, they show up
at practice every time, they work hard, and they try to listen to your every word. That
demands respect. You must also get them to respect you. There is no set of instructions
that a coach can follow to get adolescent kids to respect you, but the first step is to give
them respect.

There’s your first lesson from a youth sports coach – everyone needs to be treated with
respect, from the nine-year old Little Leaguer who put his pants on backwards (yes – I
coached that kid) to the elite athlete. Give respect to get it!

When you coach a team of 10-year old boys, you cannot expect to discipline by yelling
obscenities at them and making them run wind sprints until they faint, as if you were
coaching an NFL team. You must instill discipline through various methods learned
through trial and error. What you learn as a youth coach is that each kid responds
differently to your disciplinary measures.

This is a lesson you can put to use in your sports psychology and coaching practice.
Treat your clients as individuals and instill discipline through creativity, inspiration, and motivation.  And, unlike with the kids, an occasional four letter word is allowed!

If you can stand the little girl crying in her mom’s arms because she doesn’t want to play
soccer, the boy who constantly wants to fight his teammates, or the parent who wants to
know why little Johnny doesn’t play shortstop more often, coaching young athletes is
fun. And it should definitely be fun for the kids.

Practice for a team of eight-year old girls has to be fun or no one is coming back to play
next year. In your sports psychology and coaching practice, fun will keep your clients
coming back for more. Of course, elite athletes are looking for training, discipline,
expertise, and some psychology to help them achieve, but fun is still a motivating factor.
Play an enjoyable game, design a creative role play scenario, crack a few jokes; whatever
gets your clients motivated, laughing, and referring you to others.

Your final lesson from a youth sports coach – mix in a little humor with your expertise
and knowledge. By learning lessons from someone who has coached every type of kid,
sports psychology and coaching experts can use this newly acquired knowledge to help
their elite athletes achieve their dreams.

Hope you took some great value out of this post today! I’d love to hear your feedback, so make sure you leave a comment with your thoughts or questions. And also, you can click on the Twitter button below to retweet this article… Thank you!

Fred Philips
Business Coach
Writing Team, Coaches Training Blog Community

Technorati Tags: ,

Psychology Coaching: Psychological Coaching Your Clients to Feel They Deserve the Best in Life

Your clients need psychology coaching (psychological coaching) to help them feel they deserve the best in life.  Your clients need psychological coaching before they will even attempt to pursue what they want in life.  Helping your client recognize and release the power of their mind through psychology coaching is the new frontier.

Psychological Coaching:  Help Your Psychology Coaching Client Break Free of “I’m Not Good Enough”

.

Your psychological coaching client needs psychology coaching because they have mental barriers.  These mental barriers usually come from childhood experiences or trauma in their life.  The most dangerous of these barriers is your psychological coaching client feeling that they don’t deserve anything good.  This happens when your client, deep down, feels like they don’t deserve to be happy, healthy and wealthy.  Everyone has these feelings sometimes.  Many of your clients experience this feeling of “I’m not good enough.”

Psychological Coaching:  Have Your Psychology Coaching Client Focus on Contributing Value to Others

.

Your psychological coaching client deserves all the good things in life as long as they create them.  Your client builds evidence against the feeling of “I’m not good enough” by contributing something of value to other people.  Help your psychology coaching client understand when they work hard to attract what they want, they deserve to get it.  When your client contributes value to the lives of others, they are entitled to keep some of that value for themselves.  They deserve any success in life they create when they focus on helping others.  If you are able to help your client do that, they are free to follow their dreams.  As long as they keep contributing to others, they will always deserve the great life they will create with your help.

Kris Thompson

JTS Advisors Strategy Coach

Technorati Tags: ,